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Frequently Asked Questions
Read answers to common questions below. If you have additional questions that you would like assistance with, please call Iowa KidsNet at 1.800.243.0756.

 

Prospective & Current Foster & Adoptive Families
DHS and Other Partner Organizations
General Questions

Prospective & Current Foster & Adoptive Families

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Do I need to be licensed to be a foster parent?
I don’t think I fit the typical foster or adoptive family model.
I can’t afford to take any expensive classes to become a foster or adoptive parent.
Will you give us children who are a good fit for our family?
I feel like I might be getting in over my head. What support would you give me?
I’m not very good with the kindergarten crowd. Can I foster just teenagers?
Am I too old to be a foster parent?
Can I adopt my foster child?

Q: Do I need to be licensed to be a foster parent?
A: Yes. The state of Iowa requires all individuals caring for non-relative children to be licensed.

Q: I don’t think I fit the typical foster or adoptive family model.
A:

Actually, there’s no typical model. Some of our foster families are single-parent families. Some have kids in their home while others don’t. Some older foster parents have already raised their own family, but want to open their hearts and homes to more kids. Some are homeowners, and some are renters. And our parents come from all racial, ethnic and religious backgrounds and sexual orientations.



Q: I can’t afford to take any expensive classes to become a foster or adoptive parent.
A: We’re excited to tell you there’s no cost to Iowa KidsNet orientation, training, licensing or support services! It’s free to families and funded through DHS.

Q: Will you give us children who are a good fit for our family?
A: Our Iowa KidsNet database cross-checks the needs of children with information provided by prospective families to find the best possible match. Our goal is to establish permanent, safe connections between children and families, so our database helps us find the right fit.

Q: I feel like I might be getting in over my head. What support would you give me?
A:

After completing your training, you will automatically be assigned a support specialist who will work with you to determine your individual needs and create a support plan.

Respite care can also offer additional help, and Iowa KidsNet will provide you with information and resources through our newsletter and our website. Through the Iowa Foster and Adoptive Parents Association (IFAPA), you can also receive mentoring and peer support.

Iowa KidsNet also offers free post-adoption support services to families with an adoption subsidized by the Iowa Department of Human Services (DHS).

Learn more about support services here.



Q: I’m not very good with the kindergarten crowd. Can I foster just teenagers?
A:

Yes! Some foster parents like caring for a variety of children. Others find they work best with just boys or just girls. Some work with younger children. Some foster parents become experienced at caring for children with medical needs. In time, you will find your own niche. 

While working on your home study, the social worker will ask you about the age, gender and special needs of children you are interested in fostering. Once you are licensed, a social worker will call you and describe the children needing a foster home before any child is brought to your home. If you would not feel comfortable caring for any child described, you simply decline the placement.



Q: Am I too old to be a foster parent?
A:

Foster and adoptive parents must be at least 21 years old. Otherwise, your age is only a consideration if it affects your ability to care for a specific child and function in a parental role.

 



Q: Can I adopt my foster child?
A: While the primary goal of foster care is reunification of the child with his or her birth family, some children cannot return home. When this happens, DHS will then develop a permanency plan for the child, which may include adoption.


DHS and Other Partner Organizations

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How do I make a referral to Iowa KidsNet for a family to become licensed as a foster or adoptive family?
How do recruitment and orientation activities work in this project?
How do matching services work for adoptable children in this project? Who calls the family to see if they will take the child? Who makes the final placement decision?
As a DHS supervisor/administrator, what is my role with this Project?

Q: How do I make a referral to Iowa KidsNet for a family to become licensed as a foster or adoptive family?
A: All your inquiries and referrals can be made to Iowa KidsNet at 1.800.243.0756. Customer Service staff are available to answer the phone 24 hours/day. You can also email customerservice@iowakidsnet.com to help families start the process.

Q: How do recruitment and orientation activities work in this project?
A: Iowa KidsNet is responsible to organize, carry out and track all recruitment and orientation events statewide. These events will be planned to correspond to each DHS Service Area’s recruitment plans for the number and type of families needed for children who need homes and designed to reduce the waiting time for families. Once a family contacts Iowa KidsNet, they will be scheduled for an orientation session and the background check process will be initiated. For further information about recruitment and/or orientation activities in your area, contact Iowa KidsNet at 1.800.243.0756.

Q: How do matching services work for adoptable children in this project? Who calls the family to see if they will take the child? Who makes the final placement decision?
A: DHS staff is invited to make referrals for children who need an adoptive home placement by contacting Iowa KidsNet at 1.800.243.0756. You will be asked to share all the information you have about the child, so that Iowa KidsNet can locate a family that will best meet your requirements and the child’s needs.

The contract does not include adoption matching. However, DHS needs to work out how to get current information on waiting families. As a DHS Adoption Worker, you make the final placement decision.



Q: As a DHS supervisor/administrator, what is my role with this Project?
A: In addition to providing guidance and approval to the work the DHS licensing and adoption staff do with the project – you are also a key part of helping to form and oversee the recruitment targets and providing feedback on project operations. Iowa KidsNet has a Service Area Leader (SAL) assigned to you and your staff, who oversees all aspects of project services in your area. You are welcome and invited to communicate regularly with your SAL.


General Questions
What is the Recruitment and Retention Project?
Will Iowa ever have enough foster and adoptive families?
What are project services?
What’s new or different about foster care and adoption in this project?
What is Iowa KidsNet?
I have a question, but I'm not sure who to call.

Q: What is the Recruitment and Retention Project?
A: The purposes of this project are to:

  1) increase the number of resource families that are available to be successfully matched with children who need out-of home care in a foster family care setting, adoptive placement or relative placement.
  2) help children achieve permanency through reunification or adoption.


Q: Will Iowa ever have enough foster and adoptive families?
A:

Unfortunately, the need in Iowa is ongoing throughout the state. Children continue to enter the foster care system and foster and adoptive families leave the system, often because of positive reasons such as adoption from foster care.



Q: What are project services?
A: The Recruitment and Retention Project combines a full array of services, including:
  • Marketing and recruitment activities
  • Orienting and providing PS-MAPP training
  • Background (child abuse, criminal and sex offender) checks
  • Home studies for relative placements and foster and adoptive initial licenses and relicensing.
  • Identifying homes (matching) for children referred for foster care.
  • Providing on-going support services to foster, pre- and post-adoptive families, including crisis and behavior management to maintain the stability of children in placement.


Q: What’s new or different about foster care and adoption in this project?
A: Iowa has a strong foster care and adoption program. This project was developed by the Department of Human Services to make it even better – by bundling all the existing services under one contract to reduce confusion, to make it easier for families to get and stay involved and to help serve children more successfully.

The Recruitment and Retention Project includes activities and services that were previously offered separately by different providers and DHS staff. The project includes recruitment, background checks, orientation, home studies (licensing and relicensing) and matching and support services for foster and adoptive families. Relative home studies and connections between foster children and birth families are also offered to facilitate reunification and life-long connections.

The project has clear performance targets to ensure consistent, improved outcomes for resource families and children in out-of-home care statewide. It is operated by a new statewide network of agencies and staff called Iowa KidsNet.



Q: What is Iowa KidsNet?
A:

Iowa KidsNet is a partnership of six experienced, credentialed organizations: Four Oaks, Boys and Girls Home and Family Services, Children's Square U.S.A./Child Connect, Family Resources, Lutheran Services in Iowa and Quakerdale. Iowa KidsNet is a new organization, formed for the purpose of providing local and statewide solutions for kids that meet the quality, capacity, efficiency and comprehensive needs of the Department of Human Services, Juvenile Court Offices, Iowa Medicaid Enterprise, Magellan and other state and local funders.

The Recruitment and Retention of Resource Families Project is a statewide contract between Four Oaks (on behalf of Iowa KidsNet) and the Iowa Department of Human Services. Other agencies that are involved by subcontract on this project include American Home Finding Association, Children and Families of Iowa, Young House Family Services and Youth and Shelter Services.



Q: I have a question, but I'm not sure who to call.
A:

See our "Who To Call" list here for the answer!

If you still have questions, please call Iowa KidsNet customer service at 1.800.243.0756 for further assistance and direction.